I Never Said I Was A Lady

A letter from my best friend after I trusted a man with my heart who didn’t have the strength to carry it.

“You are amazing and so loved! Don’t ever doubt who you are or why you are here. God sees you as an amazing loving daughter that he wants to pick up and twirl around the room, I mean I’d like to think that’s how he views you. You are not defined by who you are dating or where you work at. You are a child of God. A child of love, light, joy, everlasting life, happiness, smiles, warm feelings and all of these thing are meant for you. You truly reflect God’s love for us in the things you do and how you act you really do have a gentle and quiet spirt, that can only be given to you by God, which is of more worth than having a stupid boyfriend or a high paying job. YOU are beautiful inside and out, don’t ever forget that. One day you will find a man who loves you with a love from God, he will see you as a princess and someone of worth and will adore everything about you. Until then, Know that you are loved.


The LORD your God is with you, he is mighty to save. He will take great delight in you, he will quiet you with his love, he will rejoice over you with singing.
Zep. 3:17

Your beauty should not come from outward adornment, such as elaborate hairstyles and the wearing of gold jewelry or fine clothes. 4 Rather, it should be that of your inner self, the unfading beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is of great worth in God’s sight.
1 Peter 3:3-4


Proverbs 31: 9b-31
The Wife of Noble Character
A wife of noble character who can find?
She is worth far more than rubies.
Her husband has full confidence in her
and lacks nothing of value.
She brings him good, not harm,
all the days of her life.
She selects wool and flax
and works with eager hands.
She is like the merchant ships,
bringing her food from afar.
She gets up while it is still dark;
she provides food for her family
and portions for her servant girls.
6 She considers a field and buys it;
out of her earnings she plants a vineyard.
She sets about her work vigorously;
her arms are strong for her tasks.
She sees that her trading is profitable,
and her lamp does not go out at night.
In her hand she holds the distaff
and grasps the spindle with her fingers.
She opens her arms to the poor
and extends her hands to the needy.
When it snows, she has no fear for her household;
for all of them are clothed in scarlet.
She makes coverings for her bed;
she is clothed in fine linen and purple.
Her husband is respected at the city gate,
where he takes his seat among the elders of the land.
She makes linen garments and sells them,
and supplies the merchants with sashes.
She is clothed with strength and dignity;
she can laugh at the days to come.
She speaks with wisdom,
and faithful instruction is on her tongue.
She watches over the affairs of her household
and does not eat the bread of idleness.
Her children arise and call her blessed;
her husband also, and he praises her:
“Many women do noble things,
but you surpass them all.”
Charm is deceptive, and beauty is fleeting;
but a woman who fears the LORD is to be praised.
Give her the reward she has earned,
and let her works bring her praise at the city gate.




YOU ARE AMAZING!”